Living as long as I have (which I can't say is that long, time has flown by so quick I forgot didn't have time to tie my shoes!) I have learned that friends come and go, love is just for the moment, and people speak what they don't believe in.
It has been a mystery as to the real meaning of love yes?
Well what makes love good and what makes it bad?
Recently, I set my friends up on a not so secret date. Usually these matchmaking stuff never go well. But the thing was I didn't have high hopes, I just wanted them to meet and be friends if not anything. To my surprise and amusement, they hit it off and ...wait for it....are now officially together. Yeah, it may sound a little high school like to go goo goo ga ga over relationships sprouting from nothing but a seed, but its good to feel that you made someone happy. Anyways, as for me I may be happy with the string of events, but I still stand to believe love is based on what we can provide for one another. Yes, its cute in the beginning bring me flowers, show up unexpectedly, tease each other. But what happens when you get married? Go get a job, make some money, pay for rent, cell phone bills, mortgage, insurance, gas, electricity...the list goes on and on. While we are so busy worrying about the problems living life in a capitalist country demands, we take each other for granted and need the things the significant other can provide whether than just their presence alone can offer. What good are you if all you do is say sweet things and do sweet things? I gotta get this household moving so move the tush, sweety!
( I think he will win that fight)
It seems money, lust, sex, career and so on has taken over the existence of family life. People like John Edwards, Arnold Schwarzenegger, Charlie Sheen, Bill Clinton ( no, we still haven't forgotten) , John Mayer, Paris Hilton, Lindsay Lohan, Tiger Woods, Jesse James, Madonna, LeAnne Rimes...and a lot of others have discourage the younger generations of getting married. Why should I get married if I can just make kids when I want to? Why have kids at all? What a joy kill! I don't want to have a daughter like Lindsay Lohan or Paris Hilton (fuck, if I have to go down to the station to pick you up one more time...wait, there shouldn't be a first time....in the first place!)
Reading news headlines "Couple's Murder Suicide" > Are you friggin' kidding me?!
First off, why is it always the man who pulls the trigger? Second, why does "no one see it coming"? HELLO!! If he was going to kill himself and his wife and maybe his kids too, you would think they guy has had it going through his mind for a long time. Don't tell me you didn't see it coming, oh you saw it! You just didn't know what you saw because....YOU DIDN'T REALLY NOTICE!
Oh and btw, is this what the priest meant when he says "Til death do us part" ?
Because if this is what it means, leave that part out please!!
Too bad there is no 30 months return policy of husbands and wives.
Too bad there is no 30 months return policy of husbands and wives.
What do I know I am not married right? So what if I am not married, I am old enough to see my friends go through cheating (or being cheated on), married, kids, divorce, married again, divorce again, and then MARRY AGAIN! At this rate we might as well abolish marriage all together. I don't feel sorry for people who get cheated on, because they are in denial, they don't want to accept the truth when they know its happening. Most of the time, they know the reason why the cheating began, and it is their fault and they do nothing to change it. The only person that should be pitied are the kids. They didn't do anything, shame on these terrible parents. They should have just used a condom in the first place so they wouldn't bring children into this world and torture them. Take responsibility!
The list of things we want and need from our significant other seems to grow longer and longer everyday. Why don't we just throw that list out just for one day, and see how that goes huh?
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